Behavior Therapy and Cognitive Behavior Therapy are types of treatment that are based firmly on research findings. These approaches aid people in achieving specific changes or goals.
Changes or goals might involve:
A way of acting: like smoking less or being more outgoing;
A way of feeling: like helping a person to be less scared, less depressed, or less anxious;
A way of thinking: like learning to problem-solve or get rid of self-defeating thoughts;
A way of dealing with physical or medical problems: like lessening back pain or helping a person stick to a doctor’s suggestions.
Behavior Therapists and Cognitive Behavior Therapists usually focus more on the current situation and its solution, rather than the past.
They concentrate on a person’s views and beliefs about their life, not on personality traits.
Behavior Therapists and Cognitive Behavior Therapists treat individuals, parents, children, couples, and families.
Replacing ways of living that do not work well with ways of living that work, and giving people more control over their lives, are common goals of behavior and cognitive behavior therapy.
HOW TO GET HELP:
If you are looking for help, either for yourself or someone else, you may be tempted to call someone who advertises in a local publication or who comes up from a search of the Internet.
You may, or may not, find a competent therapist in this manner.
It is wise to check on the credentials of a psychotherapist.
It is expected that competent therapists hold advanced academic degrees.
They should be listed as members of professional organizations, such as the Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies or the American Psychological Association.
Of course, they should be licensed to practice in your state.
You can find competent specialists who are affiliated with local universities or mental health facilities or who are listed on the websites of professional organizations.
You may, of course, visit our website (www.abct.org) and click on "Find a CBT Therapist"
The Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies (ABCT) is an interdisciplinary organization committed to the advancement of a scientific approach to the understanding and amelioration of problems of the human condition.
These aims are achieved through the investigation and application of behavioral, cognitive, and other evidence-based principles to assessment, prevention, and treatment.
Although loss is a nearly universal experience, there is considerable variety in how
people grieve. Bereavement is always painful, but some people return to their normal
lives rapidly, experiencing uncomplicated bereavement, while others never do. All
that defines uncomplicated bereavement and separates it from complicated bereavement
is not yet known. However, some critical facts have been identified.
Loss is a powerful stressor in life; even those going through uncomplicated
bereavement are likely to experience many symptoms of anxiety and depression and
to undergo physiological changes which reduce the body’s ability to fight off disease.
While popular notions suggest a steady and orderly progression of bereavement in
stages, people grieve in highly individualized ways.
Depending on prior losses and on the particulars of the current loss, symptoms
of anxiety may be most prominent or may mix with or be overshadowed by symptoms
of depression. There is often a sense of unreality associated with first becoming aware
of the loss. The griever may refuse to believe it has happened and can feel out of contact
with those around him or her. Many people feel guilt because they do not initially
feel any pain about the loss. They worry that they are abnormal or secretly unloving.
This experience of numbness does not reply a poor relationship. The numbness and
sense of unreality may be replaced later with a sense of profound anxiety or sadness.
This stage may be marked by repeatedly seeking the person who has died, possibly
even feeling they briefly hear or see the deceased.
As the loss becomes “real,” grievers often experience overwhelming waves of sadness
(and sometimes anger) that come suddenly with reminders of the loss.
Interspersed among the low and painful periods can be brief bursts of almost ecstatic
and enthusiastic feelings, which may again cause the individual to feel guilt. Wide
swings in mood are, however, a normal part of bereavement. Most individuals feeling
the ordinary pain of bereavement do not need counseling or medication to adjust.
They may, however, benefit from participation in groups for those who have had
Complicated Bereavement: Warning Signs
While there is no standard for what is healthy and unhealthy in bereavement,
there are some warning signs of poor adjustment. Extensive avoidance of painful feelings
and of reminders of the person who has died is not healthy. Coping by avoidance
may appear to be working because it minimizes early distress, but it appears to place
the griever at greater risk later. Those who find that they cannot bring themselves to
go to the funeral or who isolate themselves from their grief experience with distracting
activities (even those of planning the funeral) may be at increased risk for psychological
and physical difficulties.
While a death usually disrupts the ability of the mourner to carry on daily activities,
a crippling loss in ability to function indicates the need for therapy. Those who
function most poorly one month after a loss often fail to regain normal function even
one to two years later. Thus, even very early after a loss it may be valuable for some
individuals to seek counseling or antidepressant medication. Ironically, starting or
increasing the use of tranquilizing medication with a loss may interfere with the
natural process of grief.
Some of those who adjust poorly to a loss will express that difficulty in physical
ailments. Those who see a physician with complaints that are not easily diagnosed
or treated medically may be experiencing unresolved bereavement.
Medical pursuit of diagnosis and treatment of such complaints can result in
greater damage because of risks from diagnostic procedures and from unnecessary
medical interventions for problems that will not respond to treatment (such
as dizziness, fatigue, irritability, vague pains, etc.).
Guided mourning, using imagery and behavioral assignments, is a powerful
tool for provoking and safely reviewing thoughts and painful memories. Although
complicated bereavement is a disruptive experience, such treatment can be successful.
Better than treatment, however, is prevention.
Families sometimes try to protect the griever by removing the reminders of
the loss. This strategy promotes avoidance by communicating that the pain of
dealing with the loss would be overwhelming; it also hampers normal bereavement
by removing important reminders that trigger painful but necessary memories.
Family and friends can help any griever adjust by encouraging talk about
feelings and thoughts about the loss.
Similarly, children do not benefit from being protected from the rituals
around bereavement. Such “protection” may be costly; those old enough to understand
death (age 5 or older) often need the painful reminders and rituals just as
adults do. It is important that children be allowed to participate in mourning at
their own developmental level.
Depending on their ages, children will deal with the loss in a very different
way than adults. Younger children may need to hold “play funerals” for dolls or
stuffed animals and may need to ask questions that may provoke pain in the grieving
adults. Older children may become withdrawn or may begin to act out. For
children of all ages, modeling ways to think and talk about painful feelings can be
Bereavement is an experience that must be treated with great respect. First,
family members need to recognize and respect individuals’ rights to grieve in their
own way. Second, respect needs to come from health care professionals. While
distress is inevitable with loss, unsolved grief means that distress can continue
without relief unless effective treatment is begun.
Most people need no formal intervention for bereavement. However, behavior
therapists and other qualified mental health professionals can help guide
those dealing with complicated bereavement through a process of resolution.
Such a process can start even years after loss; the sooner the process begins, however,
the sooner the griever can return to normal functioning.
For more information or to find a therapist:
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